Thursday 16 June 2016

Did it trigger you at some point of your career?


Today most of the organizations are struggling with high Attrition rates and as expected it is HR’s job to control Attrition. Interesting! If you are an HR professional, you must be smiling J and if you are from Business side, you must have just reiterated that “oh God…these HRs….What do they do? Wonderful, hold your horses gentlemen and ladies.
Everybody in their career wanted to resign at some point or the other. People say it is majorly due to Compensation. I have been interacting with many people over the last couple of months and would like to share that the trigger point to resign is not always Compensation but something else. Let us explore some of the trigger points.
Trigger 1- Autocratic Leadership is a big de-motivator. It’s a very old saying that people leave their managers. Unfortunately it holds lot of relevance even today. When you are not given enough space to take your own decisions and share your viewpoint, it demotivates people especially your HIPOs.
Trigger 2- Lack of transparency and Inappropriate communication can actually create lot of ambiguity and dissonance in an individual. Whenever we are making any changes, it is very important to communicate the change in the right manner. If you are not practicing Change Management, now is the time. Else we are prone to spreading too much grapevine and increases people’s anxiety.
Trigger 3- No connect and bonding within teams- Our office is almost like our homes wherein we spend maximum hours. So if we do not have good connect with our colleagues, or we don’t see people respecting each other, we get demotivated. Bonding gets developed over a time or sometimes it is even like love at the first sight J (on a lighted note). But once it is developed, the outcomes are immense. There is positive environment, there is trust and you are always ready to go beyond the call of duty. Such culture encourages people to work as a team and leads to high performing team.
Trigger 4- Poor Listening Skills of the Managers-We all know you love to speak but hold on Sir, please hear us out. Many a times we make the mistake of overdoing things. The obsession to talk about only self is alarming. So, watch out. Listen more. The one who listens learns more than one who speaks.
Trigger 5- Not respecting others viewpoint- Every individual is unique! We work in a set up where different generations interact with each other and we do have a clash of personality and opinions every now and then. That is fair as each one of us will bring in our unique thought process on the table. But as professionals, are we mature enough to keep our egos aside and appreciate each other perspective? When an individual feel that he/she is not respected by others in the team, it diminishes his/her self-esteem which in turn make the person disengaged and may compel the person to look out. 
Trigger 6- Not understanding people’s aspirations- How many of us proactively spend time in understanding people and their aspirations. Very few. I would say it’s a rarest trait. How would you connect, shape up the career of your team members when you don’t even know them? When someone tries to share their aspirations, how many of us try to make a conscious call in terms of guiding that person to reach their career goal? This is sensitive and a food for thought for all of us.
Trigger 7- Being perceived as a biased person- Everybody has their favorites but that should not stop us from being open towards others. After all, it’s your team.
Trigger 8 – Feeling of boredom- Choose a job you love and you will not have to work a single day in your life. It is so important to enjoy what you do. If we do not like what we are doing, or if we find our work boring, then it may also be a reason to quit. We spend so much time in office therefore it is also important to keep yourself engaged.
Trigger 9- Micromanagement- This is the last thing your best people wants from you. They want to be led not managed. As a manager, as a leader, we should be able to bring out the best in our team members. When you tend to micro manage, you are being a roadblock in getting their creativity on the table. People feel suffocated in such environment and always tend to look out for opportunities where they would be given more autonomy.
Trigger 10- Never around Boss- This is the very interesting type of boss who’s perpetually never in the office.  They’re not around.  They don’t check in. This person is more like a celebrity who is rarely seen and would have hardly any time left for you. You can just wave your hand and say “Hello” to him/her J. People who work with such bosses find it really difficult when they are put under ambiguous situations. There is no one who can address their concerns and give clarity. This further make the people detached.
Trigger 11- The “I” Syndrome- There are many managers who are their own favorites and all that they would talk is I did this…I did that and go on and on. Such managers basically unknowingly convey that they care about themselves more than the team. Now this really pisses off people when they see this continuously happening in the team meetings where team members are looking forward to directions and clarity but all they have to experience is the Boss who is suffering from an “I” syndrome.
Trigger 12- Stereotypes- Now this is a very unique way to demean others. I lately heard from one of the employees where the manager uses to make perception on someone’s dressing sense and passes loose comments. Because he would strongly believe that girls look good only in Indian attire and considers western wear as a fashion statement. As per him, females who wear such clothes should quit. Wow Mr. Manager. Big Round of applause for you!
Trigger 13-Lack of Appreciation- A small pat on the back does wonders and who doesn’t want to be appreciated for their efforts and good work however many a times we miss on this. We take people for granted and forget to acknowledge them. There is a catch here. Appreciating people is not enough. Timely appreciation is important. If people see this missing, they tend to get disengaged and look out for a change.
Trigger 14- The Big Picture- Let’s park it for now! There are instances where leaders are unable to align individual goals/responsibilities with the org vision. But the concern is even bigger here. Managers/Leaders are not able to show the real picture to their people. This could lead to lot of ambiguity and a person at a lowest level may feel just lost. So people want to get out of this confusion and want to be at peace.
Can this also trigger the person to resign? I leave this food for thought for you. Signing off for now.
Smiles
Ritu
Note-This blog is not to offend anyone in person and is written purely basis my own experience and insights shared by people around